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Thinking Outside the Relationship Box

Promoting Successful Dating & Healthy Relationships

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Courses

"Building Unbreakable Bonds: Creating A Relationship That Lasts" is an immersive course designed to empower individuals and couples with the tools and insights needed to cultivate enduring and fulfilling relationships.

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Counseling

We are Cheri and Wayne Howard, We would like to share with you some of the lessons that we have learned during our 43 year journey. We bring a unique blend of empathy, insight, and practical experiences to help others navigate through the complexities of relationships.

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Podcasts

We would like to ask you to hit the pause button in your world and to listen to the podcast below with an open honest heart.  After you have listened to the podcast we would like to invite you to register for our "Building Unbreakable Bonds" online course by clicking on the link below.  We are excited to help you on your new journey.

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Welcome

Building Unbreakable Bonds: Creating A Relationship That Lasts" is an immersive course designed to empower individuals and couples with the tools and insights needed to cultivate enduring and fulfilling relationships.

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FORGE UNBREAKABLE BONDS: THE PATH TO LASTING LOVE

In today's world, the harsh reality is that most relationships are fragile and fleeting, often crumbling under the weight of misguided expectations and outdated approaches. However, there is a solution that can guide you towards a profoundly fulfilling and enduring connection: the "Building Unbreakable Bonds" online course. Just as one wouldn't foolishly venture out during a raging storm, it is unwise to navigate the complexities of modern romance without the proper knowledge and tools. This comprehensive programme empowers you to break free from the cycle of heartbreak by dismantling the ineffective dating models that have previously held you back. Drawing from the sobering statistic that a staggering 70% of relationships fail within the first year, "Building Unbreakable Bonds" provides a safe haven where you can acquire the proven strategies to cultivate a truly unbreakable bond. Invest in yourself and your future by visiting www.TOTRBCourse.com today, and embark on a transformative journey towards the lasting love you deserve.

Understanding the dynamics of your relationship can significantly impact your emotional and psychological well-being. It's crucial to recognize the characteristics that differentiate a nurturing partnership from a harmful one. Here, we explore the 5 signs that distinguish healthy relationships from toxic ones.

 

In a Healthy Relationship:

  1. Respect Reigns Supreme: You and your partner treat each other with genuine respect, valuing each other’s opinions and boundaries.

  2. Communication is Key: You both feel comfortable sharing thoughts and feelings, ensuring open and honest dialogue

  3. Trust Forms the Foundation: A deep-seated trust eliminates the need for constant check-ins or jealousy, allowing both partners to feel secure.

  4. Independence is Encouraged: While you share a life, you also maintain your personal interests and friendships, fostering growth.

  5. Conflict Leads to Growth: Disagreements are inevitable, but in a healthy relationship, they lead to constructive solutions and mutual understanding.

 

In a Toxic Relationship:

  1. Criticism Cuts Deep: Constant negativity or criticism can erode self-esteem, leaving one feeling undervalued.

  2. Support is Scarce: Your successes aren't celebrated but rather met with indifference or jealousy.

  3. Jealousy Jeopardizes Peace: An absence of trust manifests in unwarranted accusations and a suffocating possessiveness.

  4. Loss of Self: The relationship demands your full attention, leading to the neglect of personal hobbies and friendships.

  5. Arguments Lead to Anguish: Disputes escalate quickly, often resulting in hurtful remarks rather than resolutions, indicating a lack of mutual respect and understanding

Identifying these signs in your relationship can guide you toward nurturing a healthy bond or reevaluating a potentially harmful connection, ensuring your emotional health is always prioritized.

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Success Stories

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I feel like I just went to couples therapy without the anxiety!

Thank you so much for sharing your relationship challenges and tribulations. It is truly inspiring to see you both put so much effort into building a life together and working through challenges that we all face and often try to ignore."

I absolutely love this podcast!, As someone who’s always on the lookout for great podcasts, I have to say this one really stands out, the hosts have a wonderful rapport, and the discussions cover a wide range of love and relationship where any one can learn or even correct their mistakes

"Such an inspiring podcast. I love their positive, proactive approach to creating a healthy and happy relationship. This podcast has great content and impressive expertise to share. I appreciate it to talk about a wide range of relevant relational topics "

Great Show!
This is the first podcast that I have listened to, and I think it's AMAZING!! Very helpful for growing  your knowledge. If you are wondering if you should listen, the answer is a definite YES!!

About Us

Occupation:

Labor & Industry Examiner, Entrepreneur

Education:

Master in Sociology, Associates Business, Paralegal

Marital Status:

Married 36 Years. Dated Wife for 42 years. Wayne has helped raise 5 beautiful children and he is the proud Grandfather of 3 Grandchildren.

Wife Says:

This man, my husband, handsome,  charming and witty was heaven sent to me when I was just a young lady trying to find my way through life and he has been my guardian angel ever since. He has been there through every twist and turn, offering hope and encouragement when I felt there was none. He has always offered some good advice and a gentle push when needed (although not always gentle:)). He has been a 1st rate husband,  father,  son, brother, uncle, grandson etc. etc. He is determined and relentless at what ever it is that he sets his sights on and is exceedingly able to achieve and conquer his goals. This man is a good listener and a great counselor for anyone trying to get through life's hurdles.

Occupation:

Behavioral Health Specialist

Education:

Bachelors Sociology, Minor Psychology

Marital Status:

Married 36 Years. Dated husband for 42 years. Cheri has helped raise 5 beautiful children and she is the proud Grandmother of 3 Grandchildren.

Husband Says:

This beautiful woman has walked with me through the valleys and peaks of life. I am amazed by her gift for connecting with other people and the pureness of her sincerity. I have watched her successfully counsel younger and older couples and I am honored to call her my best friend, the mother of my children, and the love of my life. My love for her continues to grow as we navigate through the peaks and valleys of life. It's hard to find genuine people like this and I found an absolute gem. Enjoy her gentle touch and embrace her wisdom that has been forged in life's trials of fire.

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